Words and future

What effects our future is our words. Seeing we are word people. We have to believe our words, speak our words and keep our word. Simple things like telling some one you are going to call them tomorrow, call them. If you can't, get someone to call them, if you can't do that, as soon as you can, call them and tell them why you couldn't call them on time. If you tell your kids you are going to do something do it, keep your word keep your commitments. Isn't it hard to find people who keep their word it seems that it is a ramped problem. Our words affect our relationships. Lots of marriages fall apart because of words spoken or words not spoken. As soon as we speak right words marriages turn around. If you are spiritual you should be the one that speaks first. Swallow your pride, find positive things to say. Don't let strife, bickering and arguing take the forefront in your home. Make your home a place of peace. Don't let your self think garbage thoughts so you can open your mouth and dump them out, say something with and that has purpose.
 (Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.)
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

Self control II

Love is not a feeling it is a decision and a action, it involves how we treat people. Not how we treat people, who treat us right, but how we treat all people. How can a person walk in love if you don't have self control.
If you are going to love people only when you feel like it, your in trouble, if you don't have self control.
You can increase your joy by exercising self control with your mouth. If you wake up in the morning in a bad mood, don't say I'm in a bad mood, say I'm not going to stay in a bad mood because of a feeling, I'm not going to let my feelings control me. Do not permit yourself to be agitated and disturbed, and do not let yourself be fearful, intimidated, cowardly and unsettled. Every time you have a problem don't let it get you down make a change and take responsibility, every time you make that small victory, it will make the next problem or challenge seem a little bit smaller.
Use self control to form new habits. Keep yourself calm in adversity.
Sifu Hayes wwwsilentriverkungfu.com
Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

Self control

 What is self control and how do you per-sever. The facets of love are- joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness and goodness these are all held in place by self control. The only way you can exercise self control is you've got to want to to be in control of yourself. It's like anything else a person wants to do in life, anything from things like quitting smoking to controlling your tongue, first step is to convince yourself this is what you are want to do, once you take this step and have this mindset the rest will fall into place. We must exercise self control.
Every day you must say I am disciplined and self controlled.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada.

Wisdom of Speech

Watching our speech and speak with wisdom. What is the most unruly member of our body's. We can use it to heal or to kill. It depends who is control of it. We should conduct our selves with wisdom and make the most of every opportunity our words should be healing. We meet a lot of unique people and we should be ready to respond to everyone, and respond differently. Three things we should learn. Wisdom, grace and healing. Wisdom, knowing what to do when you understand a situation. Grace, speak with caring and without prejudice. Healing, bringing healing to the person who is hurting.     Now try to heal someone you know.
Insightful sayings; Wisdom knows that anything that is to good to be true is a trap for the foolish.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada