What are your personal advantages when you look inside your self? Are you what you see yourself as, or are you bent on seeing yourself as what you think others see you as. If you worry what others see you as and not be yourself the only person you are pulling the wool over eyes is your own. People have to stand up for what they believe in and stand up for your self. But that does not mean jumping up and down and raising your voice hooting and hollering to get what you want that only turns a submissive person into you getting your own way, that has only given you the winning side to make your self feel good, but you did not earn it through respect, it was only earned through the other person being annoyed with you and can not stand to have a decent discussion with you. Conversations are words spoke back and forth with each side giving their perspective of what is being talked about, if people are to figure out a problem. A discussion is compared to a sparring match the more the emotions get involved the more erratic, misconstrued and out of touch with the reason for the sparring or the conversation becomes. Sparring develops into a brawl. Conversation develops into hollering. Weather a person is sparring or in conversation you should not let emotions get involved, unless of course it is an attack on you personally then it is time to walk away, or better yet learn how to get control of the situation even if it means swallowing crow.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
UBBT Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada
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