When problems, misunderstandings or disagreements, happen in your life there are three things to ask yourself and these questions must be thought of and answered honestly.
1- when misunderstanding happens ask who, Look at the problem through someone else’s eyes. In the first you consider the source.
2- when misunderstanding continues ask why, is it you who is creating the misunderstanding or the other person just being negative. Examine the reason.
3- ask what, what is to be learned from this misunderstanding. Learn the lesson.
After all this and things are not worked out forgiveness in what is in hand, forgiveness does not mean you agree. It just means you let it go, if you hang on and don’t forgive, bitterness sets in and if you hang on to that it will dig a hole in you and never let you go. Besides you can’t change the past.
Sifu Hayes
Silent River Kung Fu - Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada
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