Your Words

Do you want to be more accountable for your words. It is said your words are like a wild animal. You have to keep it under control. You can use your mouth for pain and hurt, or use it for joy and peace. We can build up or tear down. If we want to be joyful in life be careful of what you speak. We can cause people to succeed or to fail by what we say. Gossip, criticism is the fastest traveling news in the world, to bad good news don't spread like that. Why is our human make up want to spread bad news quicker than good news. What would happen if you refused to criticize. Rudeness, complaining, judgmental. Keeping secrets can you do that if you are told not to repeat them, or maybe not even told not to tell them, can you be trusted. The more you talk about your problems the more unhappy you make yourself. The less you talk about your problems the less problems you will have. Not saying you should not talk about you problems, just don't keep harping on and on, for then things will be instilled in you and things will never change.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
UBBT Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

Enjoy Life

Seems the older we get the more we want to enjoy life with the time we have left. When we are young we figure we got a whole life time to waste, that time goes by fast. So we have to look for the joy stealers in our lives. How do we make other people happy. When we start giving away happiness we will reap 20 fold. If we don't give away mercy we probably won't get it back. We show no compassion for our fellow man there will be no compassion given back. If we dish out hurtful things you are guaranteed to get it back. Do we say bad things to other people then we are hurt when it is deliver back to us. Do you get up in the morning and jabber all day with no meaning to what you say, not thinking of what, or who we are hurting. Don't forget that the poison that comes from your mouth does not only poison the people around you it is also poisoning you. We have the privilege of words, but it seems when we have a privilege we have a huge responsibility.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
UBBT Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

The Power of Words

Can you increase the joy in your life. Words effect all the people in your life. How do we tame the tongue. Words are containers of power. They carry creative or destructive power. We have to learn to be accountable for the words that com out of our mouths. We can bless people or curse people with our tongues. Are you a tongue wagger. Do you have a judgement or criticism about everyone you meet or maybe your friends or best friends. Can you bridle or control your tongue. We all need reminders of this all the time. How many of can say that our mouth gets us into more trouble that any other thing in our lives. What about this we have two ears and one mouth, if we were suppose to speak more than listen we would be born we two mouths and one ear!  Slow to speak quick to hear and slow to anger.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
UBBT Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada

Change

How do we set in motion for the world or maybe universe. Do you say everybody loves me and I love everybody, or nobody likes me and I don't like them either. Do you say to your children, you can't do any thing right your no good. Don't ever say to your children you are bad, say what you done was bad but you are good. You have to be careful what you say to your children. You have to teach your children that they are special and they don't have to compare them selves to every body else, they have abilities. Teach your children the things that your parents may not have not known how to teach you! Good heavens we are are society that is evolving our parents did not know all there was to know about bringing up you and you will not know all there is to know about bringing up your child and your children, will have a difference about the way you brought them up. Stop saying things are always going to be the same and get worse.Things are never going to change, I'll never change, I'll never have any money. Things will change if you have a positive attitude that they will.
Sifu Hayes www.silentriverkungfu.com
Stony Plain, Alberta, Canada